Editorial: Good parenting doesn’t include teaching kids to cheat

There is an important piece of advice frequently shared by senior lawyers to young people entering the profession that can be applied to other careers and life in general: “At the end of the day, all you have is your reputation. It takes years to earn a good reputation and an instant to destroy one, so protect your good name as you would your life.”

It’s distressing, given the U.S. college admissions scandal and seeming routine dishonesty within politics, to realize that so many people in high positions are not following that advice.

While the 50 accused in the admissions frauds, including Vancouver businessman David Sidoo, must be viewed as innocent until proven guilty, it’s hard to imagine how they will ever fully repair their reputations.

Cheating to gain an unfair advantage over others — in this case, other people’s children — especially when already so advantaged by wealth, privilege or fame, isn’t something that many people will quickly forget, or forgive. Not only is our society struggling with an income gap, but now we are reminded of a morality gap.

The irony is that while the parents charged in the conspiracy — which includes Hollywood stars such as Felicity Huffman and Lori Loughlin, her fashion designer husband Mossimo Giannulli, and wealthy businesspeople — likely justified their behaviour as “helping” their kids, the scandal will leave their offspring damaged as well.

Not only will reputations be tainted, but some universities caught up in the fraud are considering expelling students and even revoking diplomas granted to those who cheated to gain admission. How does a young person recover from all that?

A massive lawsuit has also been filed against the accused by qualified students who didn’t gain admission.

Good parents teach children right and wrong, the value of honesty, and of working hard to attain one’s goals. Something …read more

Source:: Vancouver Sun

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